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• She person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• She is uncomfortable facing her questioner/accuser and may turn her head or body away.
• She might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between herself and you.
Pathological liars, or "mythomaniacs," may be suffering from histrionic personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. The following comments basically reflect a pathological liar who has the characteristics of histrionic personality disorder.
Some characteristics:
1. Exaggerates things that are ridiculous.
2. One-upping. Whatever you do, this person can do it better. You will never top them in their own mind, because they have a concerted need to be better than everyone else. This also applies to being right. If you try to confront an individual like this, no matter how lovingly and well-intentioned you might be - this will probably not be effective. It's threatening their fantasy of themselves, so they would rather argue with you and bring out the sharp knives than admit that there's anything wrong with them.
3. They "construct" a reality around themselves. They don't value the truth, especially if they don't see it as hurting anyone. If you call them on a lie and they are backed into a corner, they will act very defensively and say ugly things (most likely but depends on personality), but they may eventually start to act like, "Well, what's the difference? You're making a big deal out of nothing!" (again, to refocus the conversation to your wrongdoing instead of theirs).
4. Because these people don't value honesty, a lot of times they will not value loyalty. So watch what you tell them. They will not only tell others, but they will embellish to make you look worse. Their loyalty is fleeting, and because they are insecure people, they will find solace in confiding to whomever is in their favor at the moment.
5. They may be somewhat of a hypochondriac. This can come in especially useful when caught in a lie, for example, they can claim that they have been sick, or that there's some mysteriously "illness" that has them all stressed out. It's another excuse tool for their behavior.
6. Obviously, they will contradict what they say. This will become very clear over time. They usually aren't smart enough to keep track of so many lies (who would be?).
All of the above reminds me of someone. I think it is sad and they need to seek medical treatment; ASAP!
To hide that pain from herself, she uses all the lies she can concoct to hurl at the world as she runs in fear from her own goodness.
The forces of hate are like a ladder that takes you from fear and despair to happiness and bliss. You may start out with anger and hatred, but those will soon lead you into determination. Once you are determined to make a change, soon you will find the creativity and the excitement to see your plans through. And the better life gets, the better you feel and the better your creations feel. Eventually you will move from anger and hatred of your situation to happiness and joy as you watch it unfold before you.
Anger is good. Hatred is good. They are the first steps on the road to making something happen. Wallowing in despair only keeps your focus on your current reality and therefore will continue to create your current reality. It is a static change that occurs. Putting an emotion as strong as anger or hatred behind your desires will keep you from focusing on your current reality and shift your focus onto what you wish to achieve. Anger will give you a goal. You denounce where you are and present yourself with a goal toward which you can work.
For now, I continue to hate and therefore I do NOT fear; I have become creative and soon you will watch my happiness unfold before you!
So I was in NBT last night and according to B.S. (who is apparently full of B.S.) tells me he doesn't trust me becuase I "have a track record"! Guess what! I DO have a track record! Yep; a track record for dating douchebags *spelling* who don't realize what they have until it's too late!
As he continued to babble, he kept saying things like, "I apoligize if this hurts your feelings" or "No offense"....and I can honestly say, "no apoligy needed" and "none taken" because I am a strong independent woman and I KNOW I am better than most of these girls around here. There is no way I would allow myself to get upset or even worry about what some guy has to say about me; especially a guy that doesn't even know me! It's annoying to me though when people go around saying things about me and even to my face, and they don't have a clue who I am! You think because you know my name that you know me?? If you really want to know who I am or are interested in my track record, then do your homework! Ask people who matter and people who have known me and THEN tell me what you think! I'm positive that if you still don't like me, or "trust" me, it's because YOU have issues. You are a part of this circle and you keep running around and around...eventually you will get dizzy and fall down my friend! You will be more than surprised when you look up and see who is standing there to help pick you back up! Sometimes I am just too nice! :)
So I'll end this by saying: "You think you know, but you have NO IDEA!"